http://itsnotmymind.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] itsnotmymind.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] itsnotmymind 2016-12-12 07:29 pm (UTC)

Re: Management Issues II

In the Beatles Anthology, George said: I don't remember about John saying he wanted to break up the Beatles. I don't remember where I heard it. Everybody had tried to leave, so it was nothing new. Everybody was leaving for years.

It was a very important moment for John and Paul - not so much for George.

It's struck me from interviews I've seen of Linda that she does have a certain type of charisma. It's not surprising people liked her. It's just - John liking her is not something you would think about. It's not surprising, it's just odd.

(I mean, he was her favorite Beatle. That's got to count for something.)

Ha ha, may well have gone like that.

It occurs to me that one reason why Yoko's relationship with John was a success, while Cynthia and Paul not so much, was that she didn't take John's paranoia personally. I think both Cynthia and Paul, in their different ways, thought that if they showed John they were trustworthy he would trust them. Cynthia stayed by his side and tolerated mistreatment, thinking he would soften. Instead he abused her and abandoned and was still incredibly paranoid about her. Paul didn't let John's issues run the game, but I think he took it very, very personally when John expressed paranoia towards her. They were supposed to be mates, after all, so when John was suspicious of him, afraid that he would take Yoko or only cared about himself, he took it personally. Yoko was more realistic: probably because, as a paranoid person herself, she understood the mindset. John's paranoia was, at the end of the day, about John's paranoia: Not Cynthia, Paul, or Yoko.

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