In a Gender-Swappy Mood This Month

What would Buffy/Riley be like genderswapped? I don't think Girl!Riley would feel insecure about Boy!Buffy being stronger then her, but what about the other part? Would Girl!Riley feel unloved because Boy!Buffy didn't act emotional enough with her? Would Girl!Riley be upset to learn that Boy!Buffy cried over his parent's illness, but not around her? Not sure.