itsnotmymind: (buffy anne)
You know, Joss Whedon was the showrunner on Buffy for years, and even after he was no longer showrunner he continued to have a lot of influence. And of course he was he was also one of the showrunners on Angel.

But I'm still amazed how many fans can say with absolute confidence, "This plot point happened because Joss Whedon felt this way". Like, how do you even know?
itsnotmymind: (buffy/faith)
*Warning for discussion of sexual assault*

It occurs to me that both Spike and Faith's redemption arcs involve a violation or attempted violation of Buffy. Of course the big difference is that one is very realistic and the other totally fantastic. But it is still one more thing the two characters have in common.
itsnotmymind: (xander/anya s5 finale)
 

OK, I was wrong.

 

Check out this Joss Whedon interview: https://freshairarchive.org/segments/joss-whedon. At about timestamp 7:10, he states Xander was based on himself: "As far as who I relate to, Xander was obviously based on me, the sort of guy that all the girls want to be best friends with in high school, who's kind of a loser but is more or less articulate and someone you can trust".

 

Nonetheless, I'm still crazy about the description of Xander as a "self-insert". That implies to me more of a cardboard cutout than a character. Xander is different from Whedon in many ways, including, as I've posted about the in past, his formal education (or lack thereof). Note that in this same interview Whedon also says he identifies with Giles.

 

And Xander's relationship with Buffy also doesn't seem very self-inserty. Part of his defining character in the early seasons is that he has the hots for her, but does he get her? Nope. She's not interested and that's that. It doesn't matter how he feels.

 

Much as I love Buffy/Spike, they are more problematic in this regard. Her "no" does eventually become a "yes". It takes a lot - I find her entire relationship with Spike from School Hard to Chosen to be completely in character and believable. But I still find it a problematic portrayal.

 

(Note that I am going by the show not the comics - haven't read them)

itsnotmymind: (faith blurred)
Looking at that tags on this post. This is the second time recently I've seen someone completely forget Faith's assault/attempted rape/attempted strangling of Xander.

(To be clear I don't have a problem with fans disliking Angel's comparison between Faith and Angel's soulless self. But Angel was not reacting to a girl who "made one mistake".)
itsnotmymind: (daredevil)
 

I've been thinking about the Daredevil TV show, and how the relationship between Benjamin Poindexter and Julie Barnes really skeeved me out and turned me off that incarnation of Bullseye. Then I wondered how I could turn around and ship Buffy/Spike when there are some definite parallels

 

But there are some also pretty significant differences.

 

  1. Buffy is protagonist. Julie is a side character of a side character. Buffy at any point of time has a lot more going on than Spike - and she doesn't die to advance Spike's story.
  2. Buffy is very adamant that she will not be Spike's moral compass. She does somewhat take on that role in season seven, but by that point a lot has happened. Yes, he tried to rape her - but he also tried in his way to help her early in season six, and put up with her physical abuse, and got a soul. The last is particularly a big deal for Buffy because of her experience with Angel. And even after all that, she still keeps her distance from Spike in early season seven, only making the decision to help him after some vampiric therapy from Holden Webster.

 

So it seems those differences are enough for me.

 

P.S. When I first started writing this post I entitled it "Bullseye Vs. Spike", but I realized this might mislead people into thinking it is about a fight between the two. For the record, Spike wouldn't get near Bullseye. Bullseye would throws a stake at his heart before he got the change to close distance.

itsnotmymind: (spike)
 When Spike said Angel was his "sire", he could have misspoke. He could have meant to say "grandsire" and just misspoke.
itsnotmymind: (xander bandage)
 Does anyone know of a source for the oft-repeated claim that Xander is Joss's self-insert? Like a quote from Whedon or someone else involved with the show? Or, hell, even just a lengthy essay providing a solid argument for Xander being Whedon's self-insert based on the information that is public? Something? Anything?
itsnotmymind: (azula)
 I'm reading After Mandela: The Struggle for Freedom in Post-Apartheid South Africa. I would recommend it if you are interested in modern South African politics or if you like pulling random books off the library shelf like I do, but I wouldn't recommend it in general.

I'm still meandering through the Fullmetal Alchemist manga.

I'm almost done with my Buffy season five rewatch. Some elements of the finale are a little goofy, but the story manages to transcend that.

On my podcast You're Wrong About I'm listening to the episode on Lorena Bobbit (warning for sexual violence). It's not a topic I'm deeply interested in, but the episode is interesting enough that I haven't skipped it.

I listened to Boston by Augustana earlier this afternoon. It was a big hit when I was a teenager, but I realize I'm not sure if I ever listened to anything else by Augustana.
itsnotmymind: (buffy cross necklace)
 I said I'd revisit this when I got to Checkpoint on my rewatch. Was it in character for Buffy to let Spike watch Dawn and Joyce at this time?

I think yes. You know, the first time I saw Crush I was surprised that Buffy hadn't noticed Spike had a thing for her. Surely it was obvious by this point? But Buffy didn't want to know so she didn't. BUT I think subconsciously she had picked up on the fact that Spike was acting different around her. Finding Glory in her house made her desperate. I don't think leaving her mom and sister with Spike was a totally thought-out plan, but rather a combination of Glory-induced desperation + subconscious awareness of Spike's change in behavior.
itsnotmymind: (buffy & dawn grief)
1. I finished Into the Woods and have some thoughts about Riley's romantic background.

In As You Were, Riley says Buffy is the first woman he ever loved. In an S4 episode, one of Riley's buddies tells Buffy that Riley has dated other women. So it would seem Riley dated women he didn't love.

To take it a step further,  I really don't think Buffy was Riley's first time, sexually. Which means Riley dated and slept with women he didn't love.

I wonder if that played a role in his willingness to believe Buffy didn't love him? Because he was projecting from his own past experience of dating people he didn't love?

2. I think the storyline of Joyce's illness is the only major storyline on the show that isn't mystical in nature.
itsnotmymind: (buffy 2)
 I'm still rewatching Buffy the Vampire Slayer - just finished Listening to Fear. It's strange to rewatch these episodes and realize I was Buffy's age when I first watched them, and that was so long ago.

Also, you know, if Riley was female and Buffy was male Riley would be getting all these lectures about how men are Like That, and you have just have to accept that they won't express their feelings the way you want them to.

I'm reading And a Bottle of Rum: A History of the New World in Ten Cocktails, by Wayne Curtis. I picked it off the library shelf because it looked like it would be reasonably light, and it has met expectations. I think any history book is going to have to go to dark places, because history is pretty fucking dark, but this one is reasonably light and that's what I was in the mood for.

Also the fourteenth volume of Fullmetal Alchemist. I'm taking my time going through this manga.

On my podcast You're Wrong About I listened to the episode on the Iran-Contra scandal. A scandal that doesn't get remembered nearly as much as it should.

More Buffy

Sep. 16th, 2023 02:24 pm
itsnotmymind: (buffy & dawn swing)

I feel like I've been negative about other people's Buffy thoughts that I have encountered lately, so I wanted to point out something I approve of: I've seen a lot of posts lately on how Kendra was totally screwed over. I agree with this, as Kendra was totally screwed over.

 

In other Buffy thoughts: Did you know that Buffy season 5 is really, really good? I think I actually forgot how good it is.

 

Also I find it interesting that after No Place Like Home, a very Dawn & Buffy focused episode, we have Family, where we get to see the toxic sibling pair of Tara & Donny. Tara is (supposedly) different from her father and brother due to her demon side just as Dawn is different due to  being the key. But Tara's family just sees her differentness as a way to control her.

itsnotmymind: (buffy/spike life serial)
 I made a mental promise to myself that I was going to do better at linking to posts/articles/etc. that I comment on. Unfortunately, I am going to have to break my promise. I read this awhile ago and I wasn't planning on responding, but I can't stop thinking about it.

 

Someone dismissively declared that Buffy the Vampire Slayer was written by men. Rebecca Kirshner? Jane Espenson? Marti Noxon? They don't exist, apparently.

 

And what this person was specifically objecting to? Buffy trusting Spike to look after Joyce and Dawn in Checkpoint. They didn't think it made any sense for Buffy to do that given her history of Spike up to this point. I can see the objection and will have to wait until I get to Checkpoint in my rewatch to decide if I agree or not. But Checkpoint was co-written by Jane Espenson.

 

And yes, it is true that just because something appears on the screen doesn't mean everyone in the writers' room was behind the idea. But I've never heard any objections from the female writers of Buffy about the writing on Spike in season five. In contrast, I have heard that Whedon didn't want Spike as a regular and David Fury considered Spike to be a serial killer in prison and therefore Buffy/Spike would be offensive. It's certainly possible that writers hold opinions I'm not aware of - although I've read interviews, I don't always seek them out. But I am not aware of any basis for believing that any of the female writers had a problem with that scene in Checkpoint.

 

I'm glad to have gotten that off my chest. :)

itsnotmymind: (buffy/spike as you were)
 Others have pointed out that 1. Anya's speech to Buffy in Empty Places is a good description of privilege and 2. Treating slayerness as a privilege doesn't really make sense, especially given the expected lifespan of a slayer. It occurred to me that there is another problem with treating slayerness as a privilege: Spike's speech in Touched. If Buffy is "privileged", Spike is essentially saying she deserves to be privileged. That has a lot of squicky implications. So I think I will continue to see slayerness as not a privilege.

 

Also: I just re-watched The Replacement. Lately I've been seeing people say, without a source, that Xander is Joss Whedon's self-insert. I have a hard time believing that a man who wrote an entire Firefly episode based on the writings of Jean-Paul Sartre would have as his avatar a construction worker who is insecure about never having gone to college. I'm not trying to put down Xander - you don't need to go to college and have a white collar job to be smart and successful. But he is very different from Joss Whedon.

itsnotmymind: (buffy & dawn swing)
 I've started re-watching season five of Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Buffy vs. Dracula is not an episode I spend a lot of thought on, so it was fun to see all the little character moments - Willow possibly causing a downpour by creating fire, Riley/Buffy. Watching the episode, I really think Riley's main problem with the relationship is not Buffy being the slayer but Angel. I've complained about how, later on, he's upset to learn from Dawn that Buffy cried more when she was with Angel. She cried more because Angel mistreated her. But from Riley's perspective, he knows Buffy loved Angel, he's not sure she loves him. If she acts different with him it must be because of a lack of love for him. I don't think Riley had ever had a relationship with a girl or woman as serious as his relationship with Buffy - and she had this whole intense thing with this guy who was nothing like Riley.

On a more negative note, bug-eating Xander is gross, and Giles with the three sisters is even grosser.

I recently watched The Treasure of the Sierra Madre. I didn't know much about it aside from the famous quote about "stinking badges", but I enjoyed it.

I listened to the episode about The Godfather on my podcast, You're Wrong About. I swear I saw the first two Godfather movies, but I only seem to remember anything from the first one. I wish the podcast hosts knew more about gangster films prior to The Godfather. It would have been interesting to have a discussion that included films starring Edward G. Robinson, Humphrey Bogart, and James Cagney.

Still reading Indigenous Continent, by Pekka Hämäläinen. It's well-written, managing to tell a coherent narrative with historical events I was mostly already aware of.

Still reading Fullmetal Alchemist - on volume 13 now. Envy is so far definitely my favorite homunculi.
itsnotmymind: (buffy 2)
 Since it came out the Joss Whedon is an unfaithful husband and an asshole boss, there has been no shortage of discussion about how this is reflect in his work, especially his most explicitly feminist work, Buffy the Vampire Slayer. I've most often seen this discussed wrt Xander, and Buffy/Angel and Buffy/Spike (the latter two are a bit ironic since my understanding is Whedon didn't want vampire romances on the show)

 

But I what I haven't seen discussed is a small scene in season 7.

 

Conversations With Dead People is credited to Jane Espenson and Drew Goddard, but Joss Whedon wrote the scene between Buffy and the vampire therapist Holden. In this scene, Buffy confesses that she blames her father more than her mother for the divorce because, "I think he cheated."

 

I'm not entirely sure what to make of this, but I do look at it differently knowing it was written by a father who did, in fact, cheat.

itsnotmymind: (xander bandage)
 

I've been re-reading gabrielleabelle's post on the subject, and I've decided to share my own thoughts.

 

Spoilers through Buffy Season 2 )
itsnotmymind: (spike)
 In Seeing Red, Spike leaves his coat on the stairs at Buffy's house, but in Get It Done he goes to the school basement to retrieve it. I know the obvious explanation is that Buffy brought it to him, I feel like if she did this is something that should have happened onscreen.

 

Are there any continuity errors that really bother you, even though they are easily fanwanked?

itsnotmymind: (buffy 1)
 

So once again I am responding to something I read online that I do not have a link for. I needed to sit on this for awhile before posting, and I didn't save the link.

 

Essentially, on some message board or other, some fans took issue with the scene in Help where Buffy asks Robin
Wood if he came from "the hood". The fans objected to this on the grounds that it turned Buffy, a likeable character, into someone who committed microaggressions, and that it was clear the writers didn't understand the implications of the scene.

 

I don't have a problem with fans having a problem with this moment in Help, but I disagree with these particular arguments.

 

(Note this is just about this particular exchange between Buffy and Wood - I'm not going to get into Wood's arc as a whole. That would take a much longer post.)

 

For starters, the writers of Help did not make Buffy into a microaggressor. This is because she was already a microaggressor. In What's My Line, Part 2, she mocks Kendra's accent. In Restless, she tells a black woman her hair is not suitable for the workplace. That's just off the top of my head. In neither of those moments is there any indication we're supposed to think Buffy is in the wrong. They are just more examples of Buffy being oh-so-witty.

 

By contrast, the moment in Help it's very clear Buffy is wrong. Buffy ends up embarrassed, as well she should.

 

Again, I don't have a problem with someone having a problem with the exchange in Help. I'm not the person to make that judgment. But it didn't come out of nowhere, and, unlike previous incidents, it did portray Buffy's behavior as wrong.

itsnotmymind: (buffy/angel)
 *TRIGGER WARNING* Stalking and sexual abuse 

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